L&J: Choice #4 : Stop comparing yourself

Choice #4 : Stop comparing yourself

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We are all unique. All different. Never exactly the same.

So, for sure, you will always find things to pick on other girls and be able to compare yourself to them. That girl who just passed you in the street, your bestfriend, your sister....why ? Because we are all unique !

Let's stop comparing ourselves !

It is possible.

For sure, if you are used to do it, it takes time to get rid of the habit.

But it is possible. A week after the other. One day at a time. One hour at a time. And if you fall back once, don't give up ! But learn from your mistake and keep going, keep pushing.

Constantly finding beautiful assets on the person next to you, assets that you don't own is so depressing, isn't it ? So why should we keep doing it ?! Looking depressed is probably not the best reflection of who we are, definitely not the one we want to portray to those around us !

Yes, maybe that girl sitting at the restaurant's table next to yours has beautiful long silky hair or beautiful blue eyes you wish were yours. Well, be happy for her ! That's all. Maybe she also noticed something beautiful you only have. So just be happy for her, be happy about yourself and keep enjoying the food you are eating, the presence of your family or friends. She is unique. You are unique. Lets accept each other differences.

Yes, you can get inspired by someone's hairstyle, outfit or makeup. There is nothing wrong in this. But if you start feeling down and depressed, if you suddenly can't focus on anything else than “how prettier she is compare to you”, then this is a problem.

Let's not forget that we are all unique ! Let's celebrate our differences ! Let's accept and rejoice for who we are. Life is easier that way !